To know me is to love me.

Howdy! As you can all very well see my name is Jessica, but what you don't know is all the other stuff about me that I am going to tell you. One is that I am 23 years old I'm a recovering alcoholic(this is a good thing) and I am a mother. Well I'm an ex-wife too but as far as I'm concerned that info is really unimportant. Anyone who knows me would tell you that I'm smart and funny(even beautiful if you asked the right people), but I will tell you the truth. I only know what I know and I am not smart enough to not have gotten married but then again I am smart enough to know that I will never do that again(ok so I am smart!) Funny on the other hand is something I know that I'm not. I think I have a very crass attitude towards life and that is not funny at all. I think as far as relationships with other people mine have been a rollercoaster ride for the most part. I am very high maintenance and jealous. I really hate the fact that I am those things, but in the words of the great man himself "I am what I am".

Ok so now enough about me. I have three beautiful children Kaleb who is 6, Caitlin 4 and Casey 3. There will be  a link to their pictures on my homepage soon. I really think that being a parent is a very important job. I realized recently that a hundred years from now my grandchildren will not be talking about what kind of job I had or what kind of car I drove but what I did to make a differnce in their lives and the lives of their parents and I want that to be positive and not negative.

There are many things about me that I think it's important for people to know: 1) I always stand up for what I believe in. I stand firm in whatever my truth is, my truth does change on occasion and I change with it. Which brings me to #2. 2)I can admit when I am wrong I don't like doing it and it may take hours even days in some cases, but I do it. 3) I am not a man hater!!! There are some men I think are crude and obnoxious and I don't mind telling them, but you know what? I know women like that too. Last and most importantly. I have done alot of work on myself and in all aspects of my life, and even though I don't even fully Know who I am, I am begining to discover who I am, what I like, what my needs are and what I want out of this life and it may sound selfish but above all else I will not become something that I am not for another human being ever agian. There are poeple in my life who I love and care deeply about and I would do anything for them with one exception: I will never compromise my values or morals. I will compromise, everyone has to compromise at some point in there life but not the really important stuff there has to be limits.